A 90-Day Online Journey for Couples that teaches research-based relationship skills to help you navigate and work through conflict and disconnection quickly, so you can minimize fights that spin out of control and create a loving, safe, and connected relationship you want and so deeply deserve.
Raise your hand if you're tired of...
- Futile communication that gets you nowhere
- Persistent disappointment or resentment
- Chronic disconnection (struggling to create & maintain real connection with each other)
- Trust issues that keep getting in the way
- Boundary violations that keep happening
- Losing your authentic self in the relationship
- Arguments & disagreements that go unresolved ... seemingly forever!
IS YOUR HAND UP?
If So, You Are Not Alone!
Now, raise your other hand if what you really want is ...
- Communication skills that actually work
- To feel genuinely heard
- More understanding and consideration
- Better, more connected sex
- Less fighting
- Genuine respect
- To feel deeply cherished
- To feel prioritized and appreciated
- A harmonious, loving, connected relationship where you have each other's back!!
Other Hand up? You can have what you want. We know ... Because it happened to us.
We’d both been single 6 years when we met.
We’d both already done a lot of personal growth work – including learning a lot of things that we share with you in this program. Bryan was a renowned Relationship Coach with a thriving coaching practice and over 30 million readers on his blog. Silvy was a passionate Relationship Coach with a Masters Degree in Psychology and a colorful background in the theatrical arts.
We had all the insights and skills for a great and effortless relationship … or so we thought!
Within only a few months, things started to grind between us.
Silvy’s fear of being trapped and overwhelmed had her routinely thinking of escape as old wounds started to surface.
Bryan’s resistance to feeling uncomfortable emotions – in both Silvy and in himself – had him constantly running into his head, so he couldn’t feel what was really going on in the relationship.
Just six months into this dance we both thought it would last forever … we broke up.
Three weeks later we got back together.
Since that moment 3 years ago, we’ve been on a journey of learning how to create CONNECTION in intimacy in ways that go far beyond mere intellectual understanding.
Because anyone can read a book or get a degree.
... few people know how to really listen in ways that ensure their partner truly feels heard
... not everyone knows how to validate their partner’s needs without invalidating their own.
... and basically no one knows how to stop a disagreement from turning into a full-on fight (that could last years) … in less than 3 minutes!
That’s what we learned on our journey – and what we teach you in this program.
You can have a love that thrives, too.
We know ... because we both sucked at love.
Yet today we’re living our dream together (with our doggy, Yellowjhan), continuing to coach people just like you to create the relationship of their dreams, too.
We partnered to create this to help you learn and practice what we teach our private clients, and use to create our own exquisite relationship.
BEWARE: This journey is not for the timid of heart.
It takes courage to face your own stuff and do the inner work necessary to break through your internal barriers to love.
If you're willing to be a little uncomfortable, see with fresh eyes, and practice the skills we give you, you absolutely can have what you desire, too.
Because you don't just deserve a love that thrives ... you were born for it.
THE 90-DAY JOURNEY
How it Works
Six Core Tools & Insight Video Modules
Each module gives you eye-opening (heart-opening) insights and practical tips, tools, techniques for creating extraordinary relationships.
THE 90-DAY JOURNEY: You have immediate access to all 6 modules, so you can go at your own pace ... even binge watch in one night like a great Netflix series if you like!
We recommend doing one module every two weeks, to (a) give you time to process and absorb the insights and (b) actually practice the tools and techniques we give you to start shifting your conflicts to connections (with your intimate partner, or even with friends, family, kids, etc.).
*See below for specific details about each module*
VIDEO MODULE 1
The (Thrilling) Dance of Masculine & Feminine Intimacy
Learn how to:
- Interpret your partner so they finally make sense!
- Use your differences to fuel passion, not suffering
- Attract & inspire each other (without manipulations or demands)
VIDEO MODULE 2
The 3 Stages of Love (From Adversaries to True Partners)
Learn how to:
- Be the best partner you can without losing yourself
- Stop being "needy" (so the relationship can breathe!)
- Create healthy boundaries with love and respect
VIDEO MODULE 3
Practical Communication (That Actually Works)
Learn how to:
- Avoid relationship breakdown
- Address your partner's top complaints without losing yourself
- Use specific phrases and words that calm rather than escalate
VIDEO MODULE 4
The Joy of Attachment (Shift Anxiety/Avoidance to Secure)
Learn how to:
- Effectively ask for what you want from your partner
- Get your needs met without shame
- Dramatically improve your daily interactions
VIDEO MODULE 5
Mastering The Art of (Everyday) Connection
Learn how to:
- Consistently create connection together everyday
- Consistently bring the BEST OF YOU to the relationship
- Shift conflict in mere minutes ... so fights stop lasting forever!
VIDEO MODULE 6
Emotional Presence & Heart-Open Intimacy
Learn how to:
- Be (and stay) emotionally present with each other
- Express feelings in ways your partner can actually hear
- Feel what your partner (and you) really need during a conflict
PLUS, GET BONUS ACCESS TO ...
BONUS WEBINAR VIDEO
The 3 Essential Boundaries That Make Or Break Relationships
Learn:
- Why Healthy Boundaries are CRITICAL to your relationship's success.
- How this ONE THING you almost certainly do during conflict with your partner always makes things worse ... and the ONE THING you can do to quickly make things better instead.
- The 3 Most Absolutely Essential & Non-Negotiable Boundaries you need for relationship to be healthy and enjoyable for BOTH of you!
BONUS WEBINAR VIDEO