Do you struggle to communicate your needs to your partner?

Do you feel like you push your partner away in the middle of conflict when all you really want is to freaking connect?

Do you feel resistance to drop your guard and your defenses in relationships?

Do you often find yourself wanting to give up and just say F— it to this relationship stuff?

If you can answer YES to any of the above, I am here to help you reframe your upsets and understand what’s actually happening INSIDE of YOU so that you can bring your partner closer to you.

I will be offering research based practical insights to help you break through your guards so that you can show your real self to your partner in a safe and caring way.

In order to create and maintain connection, you need to understand what you are doing that is repelling the very love that you want.

You must learn the practical side of what the human defenses are, defenses that exist within ALL of us, so that you can start practicing a new way of communicating.

Once you recognize what your biggest defenses are and learn to own them, you will be amazed at how quickly the energy of your relationships can change.

Put the focus on YOUR growth, and your partner can’t help but respond differently to those changes.

And if your partner doesn't meet you in that growth, or isn’t willing to try, then at least you can feel more confident and clear if you do choose to walk away.

Once you understand what’s happening inside of you, and share from that space, you will see much more clearly and your self-esteem will sky rocket in relationships!

You can do this!

You can have deeply loving and caring relationships!

You can learn simple and practical practices that can help you create the love that you want!

You can change your approach and look at your partner (and yourself) in a much more compassionate way!

Learn how to:

*Communicate what's hurting you (without blaming) your partner.
* Recognize what your biggest defenses are in relationships and how to quickly move through them.
*Own your flaws in a way that brings your partner closer to you.
*Get why confident people are just people that can own their insecurities in a deeply self-loving way.
*Put practical practices in place right so that you can start growing your conflict muscle right away.

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Practical Communication That Actually Works


"This program is everything and more. If you are looking to better communicate with your partner or loved ones, you need to get this course. Her style of teaching is great. She is able to coherently communicate all of the points. I listen to this program every few weeks in order to freshen my perspective and get practical insights. My partner has definitely seen the changes in our communication and this always helps us out. You won't regret this, purchase it and get in on Silvy's energy!" Jacqueline


"I purchased the communications course ten days ago. I have listened to it 7-8 times now, and continue to receive so much insight and awareness with each listen. It has shifted so much for me in the last few weeks... I am so truly happy to have come across Silvy and her powerful work. Many things have been surfacing for me that I am so grateful to now be present to. It feels so expansive. At times quite painful, of course, but with that comes humbleness/more space/acceptance/movement! I really resonate with Silvy’s style of communication/ expression. I feel I can really integrate what she is sharing after giving it thought on how it relates to my experience directly. It’s very practical and beautifully crafted. I’ve been feeling really reflective on this work." Danielle K

 Frequently Asked Questions

Do I have lifetime access to the program?

Yes! Once you enroll, you can come back and benefit from all the insights and tools you gain here whenever you want. (this program will even be helpful when you're finally IN the relationship you want).

Is the program only accessible from my computer?

You will be able to access the program from your computer or mobile device, and you'll need wifi/internet access.

What if I am unhappy with the course?

We would never want you to be unhappy. If you are unsatisfied with this course, contact us in the first 10 days and we will give you a full refund.

Is this program only for singles?

Yes, I designed this program was specifically created for singles on their dating journey. If you're in a relationship, I recommend my "Conflict to Connection" 90-Day Couples Coaching Program that offers a variety of practical insights and tools for intimate partners. Learn about that course @

When does the program begin?

As soon as you enroll!
Hi! I'm Silvy Khoucasian. I'm a Relationship Coach and also someone who struggled immensely in my relationships. I was very critical, guarded, and had no idea what I was doing wrong. I was approaching my partners in blaming ways that was deeply disconnecting and painful. My critical approach was creating my biggest fear in relationships - partners who couldn't be present for my emotions!

Learning to change my approach from that awful critical space to a deeply caring and genuine energy towards my partner made the biggest difference. When I'm not able to come from that space right away (because I'm human!) I can quickly own it and apologize for my part in a way that feels very empowering to me. I can do that because I have the tools that I am about to teach you in this program. Tools that help me quickly identify what I am doing that is pushing my partner away. It has changed my relationships, and strengthened my self-esteem.